I have a compulsion to try to control things around me as well as I often feel hyperaware of what my partner is doing and I have been working on creating less attachment for a while now. Finally with the help of this elixir, I have been able to see my actions more clearly and communicate what is coming up for me so that my partner and I can work through the control and the fear that is underlying my critical nature of him. We have been celebrating more of the little triumphs and they are culminating!
Spider Lily is all about lightness for me. It reminds me about the importance of living with ease, looking at daily events with laughter and most importantly, it helps me to let go when I intuitively feel the “done” message around any daily or long term engagement.
I’m also combining it with Game Changer Mist and both feel like I'm inhaling a breath of fresh air every time. Fundamental in aligning my day!
Thank you so much for creating such beauty!
I've been taking various Lotus Wei blends and single flowers over the past 2-3 years. This Giant Spider Lily is one that I was instantly drawn to its photo. I'm about 2/3 of the way taking it and noticing the clouds are lifting more. I'm feeling way less inertia and starting to take action on things that are important to me creatively, such as sharing my poetry, music, and the like. I've felt stuck for so long and with small steps, I'm getting unstuck. This is a great helper spiritually for getting unstuck. It's gentle. I did recently notice a "release" of sorts with this one, but it was totally gentle and kind to my body, mind, and spirit. It felt like I needed to grieve and let go of the past things that didn't work for me on an even deeper level. I notice that Lotus Wei are the only essences that take me deeper into things that can help facilitate my emotional and spiritual healing.
Giant Spider Lily is deeply calming and helps me to create a mental atmosphere where I don't take life so seriously and I do not attach myself so much to thoughts and emotions, especially negative ones. Instead this flower encourages me to go with the flow and enjoy my day. I love it, and it goes really well with a good cup of tea.