I have been using this elixir for a couple of weeks, and I do notice a difference! I feel a bit more centered, and am able to focus on myself. I know a lot of us feel kinda guilty if we focus on ourselves, but it is essential to do so! This flower helps. I do sit up a bit straighter, I do feel more present within myself, and feel a bit more beautiful and accepting of my own personal beauty! This is a wonderful flower, and I'm super grateful for its help, and for Lotus Wei for bringing it to us! Highly recommended flower!